they are all inherently intertwined.
If you have one the others would follow
Whichever you choose from the seemingly single ones would build the other things you want over time (not even too long) and with consistency.
It all start with self love.
If you have self love, you have self steem, if you have self love and self steem you have self respect, if you have those 3 you are def confident.
And whichever you choose you can add this one and the results would be even faster
Detachment for Spiritual Growth
So you dont allow anything or anybody to bother you while you are in the process of falling in love with yourself.
No attachements build a solid core of self values, patience and trust in the pace of how and when things would fall in place.