My friend is in a situation where they are obsessed with someone even though they dont like them back. They were dsting for a very long time but all of a sudden this person says they dont want abything serious. This person is very manipulative and does this all the time to my friend who is extremely into love with them. My friend is very depressed even suicidal about them and eveb though the other person knows how much my friend love they still dont care and hurt them. Is there a field to help my friend stop thinkin about them ? Or to see how evil this person theyre obsessed with and see the situation clearly and stop disrespectin themseves anymore. No matter how much I try tp talk to my friend , no matter how many times the othe rperson disrespects them, hurts them they still love them. It really hurts me to see my friend do such stupid stuff and let this guy walk all over them. How to rmeove this unhealthy “love”.
Hey there! Unfortunately, in situations like this… it comes down to the other person realizing this for themselves. You can be a supportive friend and remind them that they are hurting themselves by being with this person but when a friend is emotionally hooked to someone like that… your words fall on deaf ears.
Logic doesn’t quite compute. And a part of them knows you are right and they intuitively know it’s wrong… but love can be a destructive drug too.
I’m sorry you have to go through this. Seeing a friend just allow themselves to be pulled into the abyss like this is always tough to see. And you are being a good friend by trying to find a solution to pull them out of this. But, you can play all the fields in the world for them. Like sapienmed justice field or focusing on them while playing etheric cord cutter but… I’m not too confident that sort of thing will work.
Her subconscious will more than likely strongly reject it because this partner is their comfort zone.
In this situation, the best you can do is tell her something like 'hey, I love you a lot. So much that I care for you and don’t like to see you hurt. And if I see you pursuing something that is bringing you down and limiting your happiness, I’m going to tell you. I would want you to tell me if I was in a situation like that. That’s what friends are for.
This guy you are seeing is constantly bringing you down. It’s unhealthy for you and I worry for you. I know you don’t want to hear this and I’m sorry for bringing it up but the way he treats you is debilitating you. You deserve so much better than that.
I understand it’s your life. Do what you want at the end of the day. Just know I’m here for you and I love you always.’
That’s… all you can really do. From my perspective at least, seeing this kind of thing happen quite often in life. Maybe others, have some more ideas?