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A short answer to all the questions:

None of these are inherently bad.
Everything is good in moderation, balance.

Watching Netflix for too long is as bad as porn.

If you go too long without masturbation + can’t handle the influx of sexual energy = prostate cancer.

If you masturbate too frequently, you lose vital energy.

Sex with one vs sex with many is a lifestyle decision with consent of other partners. As long as it harms no one and yourself, you’re good.

Balance is key.

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Personal point of view and history of sex development:
have read about sex and figured out what is sex after seeing a picture in a book about sex for kids at age of 7. a couple of months after my mom after me asking all the time showed me porn. i found it gruesome (penis to mouth was a shock)…then hormones started rising i learned masturbation from boys from my village but was in constant pain to do it because of phymosis. then went to doctor, he made a ton of pain, than i could do sth with my thing.

For me since 7 years of age the interesting thing about sex was (as described in that book) was people that are screaming from pleasure (as a kid i could understand only screaming from pain)…aand my head was all over it then. What is that wholesome biig pleasure where u scream??? and not in pain…and since then my life has been a search for that ultimate scream of pleasure which i never had…my partners had it…i couldnt experience that (o well perhaps once twice for 30 Years)…i think deep inside karmic or not i am rejected the full pleasure of sex until i heal completely , or it is simply an ilusion that such a pleasure exists in the form…

I have had pleasure imagining the pleasure from other people (i.e. porn), people kissing and so on…but me and my body…i have never felt it as attractive as most, and most of the time as i realised lately i tried mimiking the behaviour of the group for such an exstend as to think that i miss ssex dearly and have an enormous urge,… if u ask me alll in the head folks. ive still to figue out what am i sexually and why do i do it, why do i need it…do i need it…but i do it slowly and dont try being a monk or to enforce me to do sth, just use sapien/ dream goodies and observe. And most of the passion/idea/urge/longing for my mesmerised eyes just isnt there. the desire isnot mine…so…thats that…

one more thing: now that i paticipated in the enery awakening couse, after learning the work of dr. virtual also i know i was attacked from a very early age perhaps 7-8. had dreams of creatures/men like that did something to my base chakra (feeling of extreme intrusion there and itching as somebody is playing down there in my sleep)…then at age of 14 had my first fibromialgia episode…from age 7 until 17 i had those same nightmares time and again…of course didnt believe them…was thinking the bad attitude of others to my person was my fault and was allways shy…allways feeling guilty for everything, allways trying to amend stuff…then the real attacks started after 30 years of age… and then i found and realised what sapien/dream was about and started taking back myself…

so i think i have now new to learn what actual sex/conection etc is about…for me the actual intercourse with a woman was not as heavenly pleasurable as discribed from all the folks arround me…

@SammyG perhaps the above also interesing for you…

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:moyai::moyai::moyai::moyai: imagine reading this whole thread, and finding nothing important

And then it just hits you out of nowhere, that it’s just another emotion whose only motive is to make humans reproduce like machines
No pros, No cons

What important thing we you hoping to find?

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Truth rather than theories and assumptions

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Sexuality is personal. There isn’t some objective truth about sex as it is subjective to everyone.

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I had to have several discussions with my son (who is now almost 18) about porn Vs real life sexual encounters.

What was more damaging for him was attempting to do a no fap at the age of 15 coz some dude on YouTube had said he would get ‘superpowers’. The results of that were absolutely the most destructive thing that’s ever happened to my family and I won’t go into them here. But your last point there is the most important to me and something I’ve always stuck to with vigor.

So to answer one of the questions for now; I have no problem with porn persay, but it’s absolutely vital for parents to be open with their children, specifically males but females too, they are not in the least immune. If a parent is not open and willing to discuss the issue, they do share at least a little of the blame for things going sideways in that respect.

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Thanks for sharing that! Interesting to hear this perspective from a parent. Openness as a parent is going to be interesting for me. Not having kids yet but when I do, I definitely want to be able to talk to my kids about topics like these comftorably. I definitely never got that and ended up getting all my info from… untrustworthy sources lol. Such as… porn. Most people’s introduction to sex is porn and porn is not a good starting point lol.

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Nope, it isn’t. Me too with the non existent talk about sex though I was fortunate to grow up in the before times when no-one had internet at home and social media didn’t exist yet, but still we used to sneak porn found in the back of this or that dad’s wardrobe. Anyway, it doesn’t need to be chat about even porn specifically. Some talk about sex would have helped, I was promiscuous as all hell and it damaged me greatly. But I have learned from this and like you, vowed my children would be free to discuss ANYTHING with me that they feel they need to. Fact is they don’t always want to, but they have to know they can. We cannot choose for them but we can be there to support them in their choices and learn them a little of the potential consequences of what they choose. :heart::sparkles::heart:

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I reached this post and I like this part; I never had enthusiasm when it comes to marriage, nor do I know if I truly want to be with a woman for many many years, so long term relationships might be or it might not be the answer for me, I just don’t think that much ahead, I enjoy the moment! :smiley:

While for the other questions, here are my answers …

I try not to, the most I have abstained was for close to three months and that was when I was a teen (although it might have been my religious beliefs back then), nowadays I want to focus on real things, real women, real relationships (not right now, but in the near future), so I want to detach from this thing, from masturbation and I want to focus my energy on doing useful stuff. :joy:

I’m not against, since it may still help people to relieve their stress, to relax, etc., but i found out recently that bad entities might be behind or attached to the industry/images/actresses, so I’m not for the industry either.
It can create unreal expectations, for both genders.

Here is an interesting link regarding porn:

Regarding your other questions:
I am heterosexual (at least I think I am :joy: anyway, I’m quite happy with my sexual identity), although Pansexuality sounds fun (no dirsrespect to anyone), I mean you have all the options :joy:!

What challenges (did) I overcome? Well, I used to be a virgin many years ago, then I wasn’t, challenge overcomed! :joy:

Let’s just hope everyone has a sense of humor and no one flags my comment! :dizzy_face: :joy: I like to bring a little bit of happiness around!

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Yeah, well, my views on these topics have changed a lot in the last 30 days haha

I’m not going to defend anything I said earlier

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That;s fine! :joy: I just found your answer useful!

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If all is one, when you have sex you’re really just having sex with yourself :no_mouth:

Same thing goes for eating and breathing, you’re eating and breathing yourself

You’re always inside yourself man, this is all the same one thing

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I don’t know if that comment was a reply or not, anyway, So, all there is it’s just self-fuc*ery! :joy:
Now, this whole life, this makes sense now! :dizzy_face::joy:
Mods, please don’t delete this joke!

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Does anyone please know what the exact energetic mechanism in the body is of how sexual energy acquires the female charge in women and the male charge in men?

How does Jing or Life Force take on the Yin-side in women and the Yang-side in men?

When the universal energy enters the body, it somehow takes “a side” of the male/female polarity.

What mechanism in the energy body is responsible for this and how does it work different in women and men?

It cannot be a physical mechanism because genders and sexual attraction also exist on the etheric and astral planes.

Maybe @Maoshan_Wanderer or @Gnosticmedic27 know?

Thank you in advance.

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there is a file from sigh energy its deactivated of prefrontal cortex , is that normal ? anyone have idea .

If your prefrontal cortex would have been deactivated, you would not be able to type this in the first place.

You need your prefrontal cortex to think.
If a creater promises to deactivate it, this is the same as trying to kill you.
Stay away from these scammers.

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yes you are right , i lost my trust on him :pinching_hand: