The Devastating Effects of Porn on Self-Worth and Manifestation

[JAAJ]

@Sarumann33

and also they dont feel in trouble.

I agree that most even don’t discover this as a problem until they actually try to proactively improve their life and decide to quit the drug. When they finally do, then they all of a sudden discover that they are indeed addicted and that the drug comes with immense negative effects.

@Sarumann33

what happens to one though when he learns for example to draw erotic imagery by himself? for self consumption perhaps.

I think this would be the same as using your own imagination to create erotic pictures. At least you are creation mode where you are using your own energy and efforts to create something. Before you are putting it on paper, you are creating the picture in your mind. Which means this is more like a manifestation visualization type of thing, than a cheap dopamine escape.

I don’t think one can become addicted to your own erotic drawings and when using them for sexual pleasure feel a desperate craving. I think it is really more like you are fueling a creation of yours with your sexual manifestation energy.

These are just my immediate thoughts and there might be other perspectives on this too. Either way, this is an interesting question.

[Seraph]

@JAAJ

I don’t think one can become addicted to your own erotic drawings and when using them for sexual pleasure feel a desperate craving. I think it is really more like you are fueling a creation of yours with your sexual manifestation energy.

[Sarumann33]

it is indeed. well I imagined after i asked my question, when done with heart …it is all else but positive.

[Rehan]

Reading the part 5 of this and being nearly 2 week sober from porn and healing my dopamine receptors aggressively made me more happier.

[Aprendiz]

@Unconditional “Pornography is run by demons”. I have already read many people on the forum make that claim. Depending on the context some use that expression metaphorically and some do not. You for example, do you state it metaphorically or not?
My doubt arises because many people claim that pornographic pages are full of lower astral beings that steal the sexual energy of the users.

[JAAJ]

The Devastating Effects of Porn on Self-Worth and Manifestation – Part 6: The „PMO Aura"

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There is something that pretty much all porn addicts have in common and I call it the „PMO Aura“. This is the special vibe that (mostly men) give off who consume porn on a regular basis.

It is not just typical "soy behavior“ and being low testosterone, but rather energetic in the sense of being „energetically absent“.

Women are particularly good at subconsciously picking up on this „PMO Aura“ in a man and because of this be intuitively unattracted to the men with this type of aura.

So what exactly is the „PMO Aura“ and how does it happen?

In short, it is the result of the person being energetically non-present in the here and now and through this failing to build a connection woth other people and appearing dead and alive at the same time.

When a man or a woman masturbate to porn, they are projecting their sexual energy (Jing and Chi) and the visual mental pictures from their head (Shen) into a virtual screen world. The energies are literally projected far away into a different reality.

Screens are, as in magickal traditions, types of black mirrors and can absorb those energies and where then these energies are transferred somewhere else. Depending on what is shown and seen on the screen, that energy is transferred to create someone else’s reality.

During the act masturbating to these pictures on the screen, all of these energies are being projected away from the viewer into another world.

The viewer is literally projecting his conscious attention, mental focus and presence energies away from himself/herself.

The result is that is one appears energetically absent to others because one’s energies are literally somewhere else!

One is energetically non-present, like an empty shell of flesh with a very weak aura.

Weak Aura = Weak Energetic Presence = Unattractive = Creepy Porn Aura

People can literally feel that one is not present when interacting with someone with a PMO Aura.

Because of this lack of presence, people cannot build a connection with the porn viewer and neither can the porn viewer build a connection with the people he interacts with.

To build a connection with others you have to be energetically present.

Because of this, a man or a woman who is not present in the here and now, cannot build an energetic connection with other people and thus, no attraction or social empathy can take place. There is literally no energy available to build that social connection.

Because there is no energy to be present in the here and now, there is also no energy to properly fuel one’s aura, chakras and sexual energies through which a human social connection is established.

If there is no „presence energy“ that one can project onto others, then no social connection can take place.

The creepy PMO Aura is the consequence of being energetically absent and other people’s inability to build a connection with the porn viewer, because they have nothing to connect with.

The person with the PMO Aura is an energetically absent walking shell of flesh.

The person appears to be alive (moving body) but also dead (no life energy) at the same time to others. This creates a cognitive dissonance in others of whether the person is actually alive or not and this is why this combination is creepy to others.

A lot of manifestation happens with other people as “manifestation channels” and through the help of other people. For this, one needs to be able to connect with other people. If one jeopardizes one’s own ability to create these social connections (consciously and subconsciously), then one jeopardizes one’s own manifestation channels and potential manifestation helpers.

No connection with other people = severely damaged manifestation channels

Needless to say, that when other people treat the person with the PMO Aura like a creep, that the person’s self esteem will suffer even more.

The porn viewer is treated by others like shit, and ignored, not because he/she is inherently “bad”, but because people simply react to the person’s aura of not being present.

The only way to avoid the „PMO Aura“ is to stop projecting one’s energies (Jing, Chen and especially Shen) into digital virtual worlds away from and instead actually be energetically present in the here and now.

[Sarumann33]

this hurts alot with truth, I was called a ghost not once during my life. I have first been introduced to porn at athe age of seven. Now atleast I know how and what I should heal. thank you for this post!

[Unconditional]

@Aprendiz

do you state it metaphorically or not?

I mean it literally. but I think I should elaborate on what I refer to by “demonic beings”.

Let’s consider the following analogy by DW.

@El_Capitan_Nemo

If we draw a comparison to the world as is now.
and use technology terms, we can say the universe is a giant processor and we are simply information gathering tools.

These “tools” collect and connect to certain qualities (information structures).
Some of these are highly polarized. We can categorize these “tools/qualities” (us) in 2 distinct categories (although we’re still one): Divine (Angelic) vs Demonic.

“unity” vs “separation” consciousness
“truth” vs “illusion” consciousness.
“selfless-serving” vs “self-serving”
“harmonious” vs “conflicting”
“respecting free will” vs “disrespecting free will”
“love” vs “fear” based
… and so on. It’s not always just the left or the right side. there can be any combination of these. There are lots and lots of different types of angels and demons. But I suppose we could say the 2 main categories are “love and respect for All” vs “love for a portion (dualistic)”

Anyways, “the porn demons” are the ones that know about the unity aspect of the universe, but they think they should be the rulers or at the very least have the right to “practice methods of attacks and domination”. The universe being all fair and impartial, allows this. They enslave other beings through various technologies. Let’s remind ourselves that our bodies are highly technological machines.
They are a combination of lots of different software running mostly harmoniously. Eating, digesting, moving, thinking, etc.

Some demonic beings have methods of hacking into other systems simply when one interacts with them. Kinda similar to DW’s energy fields, but for different purposes. DW injects medicine for better health (upon consent). On the other hand, demons inject malicious software to take control without consent aka “demonic-possession”.

Some demons are highly advanced. Like not just an individual soul dicking around but an entire planetary social memory complex is messing around in the universe. No worries, we’ve also got angelic beings with incredible abilities. True experts at purifying and restructuring.

So yeah I suppose it’s a lot like a bunch of different applications on one giant operating system.
The Matrix movie is truly a masterpiece in that regard, except for the dystopic perspective. There is utopia too. I think Star Wars is a much better analogy.

[igem]

The problem you refer to is actually a consequence of the behavior, but it doesn’t have to occur solely from the say watching pornography.
It can be due to various factors not finding interest in connecting to other people. Any online services here don’t have to serve a driving role.

[JAAJ]

@igem

but it doesn’t have to occur solely from the say watching pornography.

The process of “projecting your energy away” is massively amplified when watching porn (compared to other things), because the state of sexual arousal puts the energy into an “active manifestation mode”.

While when watching other things, the (sexual) energy is mostly dormant and in no way so active for being projected away.

[Sarumann33]

understandable.

[guggie2000]

but i could be manifesting doing her?

[anon38669887]

Lol
You made my day

[Enes]

bro try to think logical and be honest with yourself. You will not manifest your crush by j’cking off to the thought of her.

[Phoenix95]

Re: pornography is run by demons. I’d like to chime in that, apart from the matters of manifestation and energy, when you watch porn you also contribute to making society a worse place in general:

• a lot of the actresses and actors (especially the actresses) are people in vulnerable times of their life being preyed upon, forced or heavily manipulated into acts they wouldn’t otherwise consent to, and generally not having a good time at all. Sure, as long as they’ve signed some papers everything could still technically be legal, but is legality enough for your good conscience? We also know that there are a lot of videos of actual r*pes online, or private couple videos being shared without the permission of one of the people involved.

• a lot of mainstream porn is absolutely fucked up and catering to the worst of taboos. You don’t have to go looking for ultra-niche videos to be inundated with videos about incest or almost-incest, deception, manipulation, infidelity, and several scenarios that would land you in jail if they were real. Again, what kind of society are we building when 99% of young men are exposed to the idea that a young woman having sex with her old, creepy landlord because she’s too poor to pay for her roof isn’t a social tragedy, but an idea to get horny about? What about the idea that every woman is secretly willing to cheat on you at the drop of a hat as long as it’s convenient for her, or the other guy is “packing” better than you? How are you ever going to build healthy relationships when these ideas are being planted into your mind?

• porn has made violent and unpleasant sex very mainstream. A lot of young women complain about unexpected choking, spitting, slapping and similar behaviour that just a few decades ago would have you labeled as the worst of degenerate perverts. Now it’s about normal. Even those who claim to like it mostly end up regretting it when they get older, realising that it was a form of self-disrespect.

• porn warps relations between the genders: men get more and more exposed to the idea that women are sexual objects that you can use (and who cares if you have to manipulate her into it or take advantage of various situations), not human beings to be respected. Women get more and more exposed to the idea that men are violent predators who have no self control and cannot be trusted, at most they are to be exploited for their money, but not, again, human beings to be respected.

I could go on and on forever. I wrote mostly about the experiences of young women because that’s what I’m mostly exposed to as a woman in my late 20s, but I’m sure thay the perspectives of men about societal issues would be just as bleak. So yea, regardless of your concept of demons, I’d say that it’s obvious how demonic the effects of porn are: people personal lives get worse, relationships get worse, society gets worse. All because society has somehow convinced men that they can’t jerk off unless they’re watching someone get brutalized, and women that they have to accept men being brute and learn to enjoy it (or start hating men as an alternative).

[Mucc]

@JAAJ

Hello, I am very lucky to come across to this thread. I believed porn + masturbation + ‘consistency’ = Overload or fried my nervous system.

Looking at the fields which are recommended at Mar 2022, would you have any new suggestion at Feb 2024? Thanks!

Brain-dopamine level:

Overcome Any Addiction
BNDF
Brain regeneration
Nerve Growth Factor
Nerve Stimulation and Healing
The Plasma Brain of Youth
Unlimited Willpower
If possible, the Blueprint of Love NFT

To get through the “flatline” when you feel low:

Dopamine Redux
Positive Power Waves
Outlook Retrainer
The Devil Reversed

Energy system repair and etheric cords level:

De-Inhabitor Combo
Etheric Cords Cutter
Whole Soul Restoration series
Auric and Energy Repair
Sacral and Base Chakra Clearing, Growth and Stimulation
The Mana Circuits
Ojas Marrowed
The Internal Alchemical Crucible
Angelic Intercession

Trauma level:

Point of No Return
ALL the fields in JAAJ’s Self Love Stack, especially the trauma healing fields

Dealing with “urges”:

The Devil Reversed
Transmutation & Microcosmic
Ojas Refined & Defined

[JAAJ]

@Mucc

would you have any new suggestion at Feb 2024?

Yes, but I don’t have the time to update it right now.
A lot of super great fields were released since then that would change the recommended list.

[Forumuser]

I think that by making a big deal out of it one can make it harder for self to quit.
I mean when you see it as demonic and conspiracy (which I think it could be to some degree) and such you are basically telling your subconscious that it has very big forces behind it so it must be hard to quit because powers that be, entities and such make it hard.

Imagine eating an apple every day and then reading about how apples are filled with astral parasites that make you addicted to apples and make you eat them every day.

If you were to think such thoughts for some time eventually you would make it very hard for yourself to quit eating apples.

I know porn can seriously mess with us and become problematic (it was for me too for years)
And it is filled with entities too. But many entites have only as much power as we give them.
Same with habits.

So here is a suggestion: try to see porn from different perspective, see how it is just a bunch of pixels and that it is not appealing to you at all.
You dont have sex with your screen (I hope ) so you gain nothing from watching it.

If you gain nothing from watching then you gain nothing from quitting, so it is easy to quit if you dont make it hard for yourself.

Realize that you can and prefer to do something else with your time, and you will be happier if you do, it is easy and you will lose nothing.

This is a concept from Allen Carr’s EasyWay to quit smoking, which helped many (including me) to quit. and smoking is seen as one of hardest addictions to quit.
So perhaps this concept can work for some of other addictions too

[Rehan]

Oh yes I agree. When we place big emphasis on something so negative we tend to go back to the very thing we try so hard to avoid. After many hours with the new acceptance field I realize one shouldn’t resist, you are in control, not the porn and the entities attached to you.

This has made me very much detached from porn and retaining my sexual energy. No more thinking this is bigger and powerful than me.

[AlreadyThere]

@Phoenix95

a lot of the actresses and actors (especially the actresses) are people in vulnerable times of their life being preyed upon

People don’t realize that you’re sending them a psychic attack as well. Just by thinking of them in that way and creating that cord. You’re contributing to sending them thoughts that they are objects. You’d also be sending all your lust etc. It’s pretty terrible all around, imo.