Emotional abuse?(UPDATE)

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EDIT: No idea what happened but partner agreed to listen to the fields, by himself!! I’ve been asking him for five years! It feels like a dream??
So I made a following playlists for him:

  • Vibrational Raiser
  • Super Human Mutant
  • Adrenal gland healing
  • stem sells to adrenal glands (he has overactive glands)
  • Ego Dissolution
  • Alchemical revision of childhood
  • Amygdala healing
  • internal alchemical crucible
  • subconscious limit removal
  • serotonin
  • dopamine redux
  • oxytocin
  • probability alteration and luck
  • life of magical abundance

What do you guys think? Should I add anything?
And I want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH everyone who commented, you are literally the best, I love you all

I am being emotionally abused by my partner.
When I bring it up to him he either gaslights me or blames me back. I can’t go on like this anymore.
I am afraid of leaving because I have no family, or friends, or income, or savings. What I do have is a six year old child with said partner. Partner constantly screams at the child too. He is very very rude.
I am so broken. I stay in relationship because I have stability that way. The roof, the food, etc.
I don’t know what to do. Please help me. Thank you.

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#2

he is not shouting at you, but at what is inside you. you are internally and externally hooked on it. and he disconnects you from himself through rudeness .

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#3

Any advice on what to do? Thanks…

#4

Play this audio 24/7 around your partner.

Love fields also good

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#5

Do you have cone of power? Manifest the good outcome of him to respect you. And make him realize the good things you shared with him. Do this every day once a day while you put the intention with cone of power.

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#6

Thank you. I appreciate it.

#7

I don’t have it. Is it an item for sale?

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#8

I found the audio through the search bar. Thank you Imogen.

#9

It’s audio from gumroad

#10

Self love fields are always a good start.
Any way of getting a job and then moving out after some time?
I don’t know how he would react so this would be up to you to evaluate but even if he blames you back try to stand your ground.
Maybe there are some things he doesn’t like about you in his perception but that doesn’t change the fact he acts like that.
Maybe try to reason with him in this situation.
That you feel hurt and maybe if he is hurt too you could talk together and figure it out.
Don’t think he would lash out on you if he is happy.
That could lead to another dialogue.

For the case where you feel unsafe you could also try the angelic intercession on dreamseeds and ask for protection or maybe to help a bit for a more loving outcome from a conversation or interaction etc.

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#12

In short,
You have to get out of that relationship 100%.
I was in a narcissistic relationship in such a way where literally everything was my fault.
It’s just no point, you might believe it will get better, but the best is you walk away.

Your situation with a child - it’s even more important to leave as the child has already learned much of this rudeness unfortunately.

You say you have no family or friends, so your first step would be to find a confidante. It’s very difficult alone (but it is doable).

In my case I was on the brink of depression and pulled myself out of it - willpower only, what was left of it.

You have this forum to help you for now and more help will come to you

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#13

We are here and we will help you.
I recommend these fields to change the energy around you.
Also intercession fields, you can ask help them too, to ward off negative energy and things like that. They might give you relief and guide you to have these things figured out so theres no suffering for either sides.

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#14

I’m sorry you and your kid are going through this but like everyone is saying, you have to leave. Here are some fields that can help you.

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#15

Are u in the U.S.?

If u are, there are supports/organizations for this. To help u and your child get away from abusive situations.
They are probably available in other countries, except I am not knowledgable about them.

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#16

Hi. Is there any way you can open up your own private bank account without him knowing?
Do you have a degree or anything of the sort? If not getting a certificate ir accreditation will be helpful; when you leave you will need to get a job. Until then if you have anything such as jewelry you believe you can part with and sell, consider that.
Any support system? Friends family any womens groups?

I am really glad you are looking at this objectively but at the same time honoring your truth; you do have to leave but financial independence is important. But make no mistake you will need to leave. Furthermore for your sons optimal development it is essential to leave as living in a traumatic household is far more detrimental than experiencing divorced parents; this is also affirmed in empirical literature not just a personal opinion. I say this not to scare you but so you know it is in your sons best interest to also leave; it will be hard. It will feel like there are no options. But there will be- we just have to find them

I do not know which country you live in so I cannot assume what the legalities of this entire situation hold. Such as would this implicate where your son would be go? In the US, Most likely with him due to his financial stability; if you are in the US you could receive child support but still, it is not enough.

Due to that its really important we get you some financial independence going
(So WW millions, financial protector on paetron but more on that later in this post)

But again, paid fields or anything for purchase related are secondary. Until then this is all avalible for the public but still and very potent/ helpful:

Free Energy Tools of SM’s:
Wherever that guy sleeps: be sure to very softly but surely play the exorcism 2.0 and negstivity remover - these two are both free
I recommend this from personal experience

Please print out Michael Mandala for you and your son; if the man will flip out seeing it, subtly hide it. My father is anti this so mine are subtle; i hide them in my phone case or wear them under my bra or something.
Please carry for yourself beauty- that will help you especially after his crazy attacks- i recommend this for both you and your son too
Thor the Mandala. Empath protector. Negativity Repeller. All are free and on instagram

Audios for Sale:
With all that in mind, WW millions and WW contentment; those two on their own really should help bring opportunities - especially WW contentment to bring opportunities to GTFO.
Personally: when i am physically strong enough again i am going to be leaving the same exact way, so please truly consider those 2 WWs
Next: Point of no return ( especially as of right now since you feel so exasperated) i really feel this with the 2 WWs are going to be game changers for you
Also: entwining worlds of beauty & joy for you but especially the little one if not fesible the free audios: memories of joy and inner pillar of power.
Smart cord cutter and Tower of Holy Light (Tower of Power)

NFTs:
Intercession 2.0
Shielding 3.0 for you and your son.
Also if its possible- get hearth heater nft but again its really not necessary right now. If someone can lend you Hearth Heater and Passive Income / Financial Freedom NFTs/…tthat would be great for they both have maker items. You can make an item for both you and your son
And eventually solidifier… not mandatory but can help boost you with your safe departure

We will send servitors to keep you and your son protected, too.

If you do not mind disclosing the country you live in, it will be of immense help to us so we can better assist how you tackle this situation.
You must know we are here for you, too. Please know you did a huge step by even disclosing this situation- god bless you.

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#17

Also this for the intermittent. (Thank you Mao& Dream; and sorry I didn’t directly ask for permission :sweat_smile: )

He had posted this under a thread I once created for something similar with abuse.
These are some other wonderful suggestions taken from that same thread: Psychic mental shielding

Edit: I am just going to etch that thread because I’m having trouble adding all their comments on this post; i’m not the most tech savvy: https://forum.enlightenedstates.com/t/trigger-warning/

And this for the sweet little angel your little one :slight_smile: The Alchemical Revision of Childhood

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#18

Thank you so much Owl :pray: It means a lot to me

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#19

I’m in NZ. We have Women Shelters but they only provide temporary accommodation. I’m afraid to be told I have to leave the shelter before I’d find a new place to live.

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#20

I’ve been listening to Self -love and acceptance; love, gratitude, and appreciation; internal alchemical cubicle, negentropic fool, a few fields to help with anxiety and depression, and a few wealth fields.

I did talk to him and he says he is very exausted.
I haven’t been working for quite some time due to fatigue caused by antidepressants. I quit them maybe 4 months ago. I now will be looking for jobs.
I’ve applied for one position and hopefully I’ll get it.
It’s just that due to school hours I can only work 10-2 and I can’t work holidays. So many employers aren’t happy about it.

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it.

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#21

I don’t know your situation in detail, and also don’t know the other side of the story, but are you also providing your part of duties in a relationship?
Does he receive enough love, appreciation, sex and intimicy from your side?
Or does the child receive all of your affection?
Does he provide all the time but does not receive the things back from you that he expects to receive back from you?

I am mentioning this, because in many relationships men have this unhealthy subconsicous idea to treat the relationship as a transational exchange, i.e. sex in exchange for the provider role.
And then, if the transaction is not fulfilled (as promised to them by society and commercials because society has treated relationships as such transactions for Millenia), the man becomes angry. Angry at you and the child for not fulfilling your part of the transaction. And the child is only screamed at because it takes away your affection from the man.

This is one of the possibilities of what might be going on here and I am mentioning this because it is one of the most common cases.
It is statistical fact that with many couples the amount of sex and intimacy drops after several years of a relationship and even more so once a child is born.
If the relationship was built on a such a transactional assumption the whole time, and too many relationships are, then the man becomes resentful and angry, having the same feeling of being stuck and trapped in their provider role, without any longer getting the promised benefits of the relationship.

And then also, additionaly to what others mentioned:
If you do not love yourself and assume the victim role, you will be treated as such – whether this is justified (you really carry the victim role) or unjustified (you simply being the first subject to vent onto for a frustrated man).

If your carry the victim role and/or are not fulfilling your partner’s needs, then the only way forward (versus carrying on the problems into your next life phase) is solving these problems at the core, i.e. getting out of the victim role and becoming independent, or rekindling the fire in the relationship that you entered for reasons of stability and being provided for in the first place (if these were your reasons as you mentioned above and you entered the relationship also for the transactional reasons, then like your partner, you co-manifested the situation that you are both in).

PS:
That topic of people treating you bad seems to be really something that you manifest on a regular basis as you wrote here (which means you have to work on your self love and how you see yourself):

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