No father figure in my life so I guess you are right
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A fucked up world we live in
Then replace them with Ego Dissolution + Raise Your Vibrational State
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a little bit masochist too maybe?
Well, take good care of yourself, please don’t become as mean as I have become and beware of the pride - spiritual or not - that often surrounds us.
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Nah
(“masochist” because you tell bad things about yourself, not because you are kind)
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I guess if we lived in a world where everyone was kind and nice the world would be a perfect place. Too bad it isn’t and there are people that take advantage.
They take advantage yes. And?
You can change your name to NotNiceGuy 
to change the vibration of you from your profile. I always do that to make sure my name and picture reflects what I want.
I hope I do not sound mean…But it is effective to change profile in turn to change the subconscious mind and attraction.
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It is because most of society is ego driven and they think being nice is a weakness. They also confuse being nice with beeing needy and simping, while in reality those are completely different things. Being a simp has nothing to do with being nice actually, because one is still lying to oneself.
This is one of the best parts of raising vibration. You realize that many people in your life were holding you back and then you release them. I “lost” several old friends but gained freedom and energy, which much more valuable! It is your incarnation and you cannot afford to be held back by other’s victim games.
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this won’t address the issue no. If anything could make it even worst.
follow the suggestions of self-love and parental love. Focus on those audios and if you’re listening to anything else for other problems drop that. (ofc depending on what you trying to prioritize)
again:
The Archetype of parental love
The emperor
The Chariot
Inner strength
Emotional release
unconditional you
Love gratitude and appreciation
Become whole
self-love and acceptance
confidence
insecurities In this order:
All-purpose anxiety removal
Trauma Release and healing
Amygdala healing
The Devil (reversed)
The internal Alchemical cruible
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Hi
@MrNiceGuy and Welcome to the forums
I’m gonna suggest sth differently…
First of all i was just like you. Being bullied, taken advantage of, abused emotionally and mentally etc. I didn’t get it. Why am I nice but niceness isn’t returned?
The thing is people operate in habits and if let’s say a close person of yours keeps asking you favors and you keep on jumping for them into the water, this scene will establish itself in both your mind and theirs.
Now zoom out and look at it from a grander scale. Et voilà, you have now become Mr nice guy to everyone. And then most people will think it’s ok to treat Mr nice guy as a doormat, because he seems fine with it.
Underlying this is a fear of not belonging (aka fear of rejection). You can ask yourself… Would you be still nice if all the people are nice to you? Would you stop being nice? Is there an in between?
I’m a big proponent of direct experience. So in a sense, what i would like to invite you to do now, is to embody the persona of Mr not so nice guy. You can even try it in this thread. Just start a little verbal fight here. Even if you feel it being too fake, if you can embody this not so nice persona for a moment, you’ll establish an inner balance.
Later on you’ll realize that it can be nice to be not so nice and it can be not nice to be nice. There’s an intricate balancing act in this.
The good thing is… Your foundation is nice. It’s not like you’ll suddenly become a complete a$$. You just need a bit exposure to this other side.
What happens then ideally is that from now on when someone asks you a favor, you hesitate, ask your heart and you’ll hear a response. And then you choose! And that’s your own choice, whether that’s yes or no, that was your own choosing.
It’s not so easy to put this all into words. These are truly concepts one should transcend.
And for audios… Hmmm… Tough to decide. For instance i don’t think you need self love audios, you are already doing that by being who you are. Vibration of transcendence is likely too early. Creation might help as it clears a lot. Testosterone isn’t quite related as it’s not about being more manly that helps you but more of integrating your uniqueness better within. Hmmm. I’d actually say you need a custom field 
but those aren’t made anymore / at the moment.
Now that i think of it, you’ll need a fear release, amygdala or shamanic medicine would be even better. Highly likely you’ll need Etheric cords cutter, and perhaps depths of your soul. Add inner beauty reflected outward as a cherry on top. Oh i forgot emotional release, that is a no brainer
Btw even though i experienced similar as you, my advice is still subjective, so take all of it into your own consideration. And feel free to say NO 
( I’d be happy tbh)
And finally good luck sir, you got this
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I completely disagree on this statement.
It is never “too early” to raise vibration and dissolve ego.
And no, he is not loving himself enough, which is proven by the fact of what he wrote here.
99.99% of souls on earth have an issue with self-love and self-esteem and one can never learn to love oneself “too much”.
Furthermore, any “solution” that is not working deep within the subconscious mind is almost guarantee to fail or in the best case scenario will take years! The self-help industry exists because 99.99% of people on this planet have no clue how the psyche and the subconsciouss work.
These are all rather superficial solutions for healing the symptoms of the underlying issue: lack of self-love.
People should stop trying to cover up and short-term remove symptoms but go really deep and solve the underlying core issues.
That is why most fields on the Dream Seeds and Energetic Alchemy channel are actually more powerful in the long-term.
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What is love?
Like really?
Is love that butterfly feeling for another person? Is love friendship? Compassion? Empathy? Sex? Kindness? Helpfulness?
There are more definitions for love than people in this world. So whichever you choose, love is most certainly universal. Love is in the universe. Is love in the atoms? Or in dark matter? Or ethereal? God knows. I certainly don’t.
So was the universe created? Or is it random? I’m not religious but it seems to me the universe is way too beautiful to have been randomly created. And if it has, love has been woven into it. You can’t really escape it. Everything and everyone is imbued with love.
A creation in it’s creative process has love embedded. This creation is then innately self-loving. There’s no other way.
Well, why do so many people don’t love themselves enough?
It boils down to your perception of being in discord with creation as a whole. The separate one, who perceives not to be one with creation, cannot love fully, and thus cannot self-love fully.
The love (and hence the self-love) is already there (here), otherwise no one would exist, as no one would have been created. I don’t know if that makes sense. To me it does.
It did take me years to learn this.
So since we’re dealing with solving a problem of perception @MrNiceGuy might even wonder what raising vibrations means. That’s why I said it could be too early. To be frank, it might be the perfect timing. Ideally i wish i could snap a finger and could then conceptually communicate this, it’s really tedious with words.
The audios i recommended were based on my experience, as i did need during those times to release my emotions a lot, to cut many people out of my life, to seek my innermost soul, and to express my uniqueness outwards
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Also
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Just want to add:
PTSD Help is an excellent field for this purpose and one’s overall well being, whether or not one is facing noticed traumas.
It can address a vast range of things, including one’s emotional well being.
It should be in everyone’s listening stack, 
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Thank you guys you really proved some usefull solutions. I will need some time in my head to process which of the audios you proposed would help me best with my situation. For now I think to use
Is this one needed if I use Trauma release?
And for sure after some time I will buy the knight mindset and soul restoration.
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