A mistake a lot of people make is to confuse passion and actual love.
Passion is very hormone based, or pleasure based, or more primal (got toā¦ reproduce), hence it vanishes for most people after 1-3 years if not nourished.
Until they get to the next partner, and the next one, etc.
We somewhat use other people, until we feel we need more depth in our relationships.
Whereas true love is genuinely caring about someone and wanting to build something together.
It requires courage as you need to open up and accept to be hurt at times, and change, but this is really worth it.
Perhaps a time to assess with your girlfriend if you two are compatible for each others?
And if you do intend to build something together
Hope Iām not stepping outside my bound, I like your openess around here and I felt inspired.