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If you want to improve your relationships, read the book āThe way of the superior manā by david deida.
The title is misleading since itās not just for men ,but talks about relationships in generel. Itās also not another ājust be an alpha broā kind of book, so Iām not the biggest fan of the title because I feel like it doesnt really represent the content of the book.
This book has taught me so much about relationships, why past relationships didnāt work, the needs of women and my own needs.
It also helped me answer the question: āWhat the hell do I want to do with my life?ā ,talking about purpose.
I have no ulterior motives here , I simply want to help. This community has helped me a lot , so Iām trying to give some back. And I figured this thread would attract people, who are interested in relationships or have some issues with that.
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My personal opinion about that book:
Iāve read that book more than 15 years ago.
I did not like it back then and I still do not like it today.
While it has some good points on some of its pages, it is very blue pill and has a lot of limiting beliefs and assumptions about what man and woman want and how man and woman shall be.
The author has taken many ideas from the Pick-Up community, or they took it from him, does not matter, because the quality of the content is all very blue pillā¦
For example the author assumes that women test men all the time to check whether they are strong and masculine. However this is only the case for incongruent men where women are not sure in the first place whether the man is what he signals to be. I wrote about this in the Androstenol thread. Congruent men do not get tested by women because there is no doubt in her perception that he is āthe manā.
The author also completely ignores Subconscious Mindās power and its programming and also the need to heal trauma.
Author also confuses āpurposeā with āpeaceā with āneedsā with ācoping mechanisms / self-sabotageā.
Author also promotes a mindset of āsettling for what isā and just accepting it or finding hacks around how to deal with it.
Author has zero insights in manifestation of oneās own reality.
This book is hyped in PUA and male psychology circles because it is very basic and understood by the masses. It never goes anywhere deep into any topic and is just the authorās personal world view compiled into a ārelationship advice bookā.
There is zero spiritual insights in this book.
If you have never read a PUA blog or reddit, then this book might give you a few new psychological insights. But thatās it. Doing what the book says means switching from one dysfunctional model to another. My personal recommendation is to skip this book as it will keep you in the victim mindset.
PS: I found a book summary made by someone here.
PPS:
Better invest your time into listening to Conceptual Realizations and trauma healing fields.
PPPS:
Before someone asks, I am not aware of any really good book on relationship advice that I could recommend. They are kinda all blue pill, even those that claim that they are āred pillā (books like The Rational Male) etc.
You are probably better off with healing trauma and afterwards reading generally known spiritual books like āA Course in Miraclesā or the āConversations with Godā series.
PPPPS:
Blue pill advice = advice from people who are not aware of and who have not healed their own traumas and have not fixed their self-esteem. Unfortunantely, that is most people on the planet.
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I realized that every time I start listening to the blueprint of love, somebody posts in this thread not long after
Kinda interesting
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Well if you dont want a 2000 page book ,you have to brake it down to some extend ,so it is applicable and palatable to the masses. And it talks about some basic dynamics between most men and women. The author acknowledges that there are woman with a masculine temperament and men with a female temperament; and that there is truly neutral people. but most men are attracted to female women and most woman to masculine men. That might trigger some people, but that is reality.
Like I said you cant go into everything and nobody says that it should be your only source on information about relationships. With that said it is a phenomenal work on the basic dynamic that occurs between two polar energies. These energies exist just like magnetism exists. You can disagree with that ,but that wonāt faze the magnet :)
I found this to be false. There is quite profound spiritual insights there. You might want to reread the book with an open mind . Sometimes the most profound spiritual things seems trivial at first. Thereās layers to this stuff. Just like thereās layers to purpose (as the author talks about)
I dont know, I feel like youāre throwing around that blue pill thing as a label to discredit this book for you own personal reasons.
I do not get the impression that the author has self esteem issues or is trying to overcompensate.
With that beeing said, I do not agree with everything this book says and it could go into depth more in some topics.
But as a basic foundation of relationships itās great and can teach you a lot.
Oh ,Sorry man , didnāt know that , my bad
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Any testimonials or suggestions from experienced users on how to actively use this NFT to make the included features to work effectively ? (if any kindly share)
On day-1 I was able to smell the pheromones on my body , but after that I am not able to smell or experience the smell of pheromones on my body. Is anything wrong with my usage ? Or it just works this way ?
Integration takes time. What I noticed is when I listen or wear the mandala for the first time, I noticed effects immediately, but then as time moves along, effects arenāt noticeable. Itās not that it stopped working, itās integrating with you.
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Blueprint of Loveā¦
The creation from another timeline
Crazy stuff
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, share your experience thus far , we are excited to hear all about it man 
Yeah some crazy ones.
Had some crazy onesā¦
I should really get back to it 
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Like that one time, I went into a club and 5 min in already had a girl 
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Or that one time when the hottest girl in the club wanted to dance with me and make out etc.
I simply needed to take her hand, and she was, finally what were you waiting for hahah. (Before i was just standing stil vibing a bit, seeing who i will attract to me and waiting for this right moment).
Anyways gotta keep it tame. 
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Nice , what about the respect aspect you get from guys ? Is there any ?
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Maybe some stares from gay people but idk, not my area of focus.
Respect from other guys?
hmm, maybe just a part of respect for you when they see you are a healthy loving male, which they should strive to be as well.
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no tame!
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Which one you found more effective for your results with this BOLove - Audio or Mandala ??
Audio
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