The Real Reason Male Enhancement Won't Work

Ello there fellas. Today I want to talk about the size of your penis… Well actually, I don’t want to talk about that but receiving a dozen emails every day with subjects like ‘make a field that makes my penis 8 INCHES’ has driven me to make this thread lol. (this is an article length post so brace yourselves)

First thing’s first… porn can be quite poisonous to your self esteem. When you watch it, one of two things happen. You put yourself in the man’s shoes so it’s like you are the one in action. Or two, just watching the woman get it in turns you on enough. Something subconscious is happening here though. When you step into the man’s shoes, the man has a large penis that is usually bigger than yours. He is pleasing the woman (which she could be faking sometimes) on what seems like an extreme level and through years of watching porn, the idea in you forms that you need a huge penis like the ones in porn to give women that kind of pleasure. You’re stepping in shoes that you don’t fit in.

Same thing happens when you just watch the women get ‘astonished’ by these huge penises every single day. Naturally, the mind will compare your size to theirs and start to get the feeling that you won’t be able to please a woman in the same way.

Then what comes after is a lack of confidence in your sexuality. You don’t feel big enough and this lack of confidence exudes throughout your personality. When talking to women, they’ll feel that you feel you lack something and that in itself is a turn off. Women generally want men that feel sure of themselves… And that brings me to my next point…

Women do not care about size as much as men do.

Sure there are some women that do but the majority don’t ( as far I know). Confidence outweighs it all and even if you don’t have the largest package, being confident in what you have and your ability to please is far more important. Obviously knowing how to please is important too but you can learn to bring women to orgasm at any size. Just don’t learn from porn lol.

There are actually guys out there who are big but lack confidence and can’t get a girl to save their lives. Size isn’t a magnet. Confidence is. You can walk around with a peanut and feel like you have a rocket-ship and that level of confidence will make you magnetic.

At the end of the day, women are emotional beings. They are drawn to the energy you exude. To how you are within. They can literally feel how you feel about yourself. If you believe in yourself, then she may feel inclined to believe in you. And obviously, many are attracted to attractive/strong looking men … because they are generally very confident in themselves (looks grab the attention first of course). But even in being good looking, if you lack confidence, you can easily lose a woman’s grasp. I’ve seen this happen to so many men (me in high school lol).

(Side Note: There are also women who don’t care about confidence all that much. Your personality alone can be very attractive. Being able to make a woman laugh is a much more treasured quality than looks or size. I felt I had to mention this because it might seem like I am generalizing a lot here and women are all individuals with different preferences. There are many insecure guys with girlfriends. But the reason why I stress confidence so much is because the lack of it, often blocks your ability to show your personality! Lack of confidence will often stop you from approaching women or ever meeting them no matter how awesome you are. How can women get to know you if you don’t feel confident enough to fully express yourself? )

This is why I stress more than anything to work on who you are within. Work on accepting and embracing however you are right now and forever. Accept that your body may never change and embrace it. Fall in love with it. Because to truly love yourself is to love yourself without condition. And conditions would be size or bigger biceps or slimmer stomach. And here’s the thing…

Feeling abundant within creates abundance outside as well. And this is when bodily changes can more easily happen. If you feel you lack something, the subconscious will continuously project this as a reality. If you feel you have everything, naturally you’ll attract more of what you want. And your body will respond more easily to your intentions. And this directly ties to confidence.

Confidence is linked to your willpower. Willpower is linked to your virility/vitality. Your virility is linked to the blood flow that goes to your penis. Penis size can grow to be larger through increased blood flow. What this confidence also means is that when you feel you are big enough, the blood flow will compliment that. Your penis will look big in your perception and this will drive your belief further. Belief creates reality.

So how does this tie into the male enhancement field not working for you?

When you have a strong insecurity such as your penis not being big enough, that insecurity trickles down to your whole beingness. As said before, it affects your overall confidence. This belief that you are not big enough is solidified at this point and will constantly make your penis look small from your point of view and in many cases your subconscious will prevent further blood flow or things that could make it ‘look big.’ In this case, the belief is a blockage that prevents the field from doing its full job.

Not only that but your penis may have gotten all the stem cells and growth necessary to be big but lacks the blood flow to reach the bigger length and girth. If you’ve ever looked in to P.E. exercises, growth is done through manipulating the blood flow to engorge the penis. So blood flow is necessary for growth and blood flow is often linked to your mind in this case. So in essence, penis size is mental. In a sense, your penis can stretch and grow to be much larger than it is right now but that requires belief.

This all sounds far fetched but it’s the only real solution to the mental trap of ‘wanting to be big enough.’ I would even say forget the field and focus on your confidence. Size is subjective and all that matters is that you are happy with what you have and who you are at the end of the day.

It’s the same as wanting to be pretty enough to fit in with society’s standards. I tell women the same thing… that is a mental trap that you may not fully ever escape from. Even if you attain ‘society’s standard of beauty,’ it will fade with time as all physical things do. So you’ll just be endlessly chasing after the feeling of validation the world gives you for your beauty even when time begins to crack the shell. Validation from the outside is fleeting.

What doesn’t fade though is the way you feel about yourself. The stuff of the soul. Start there and beauty, growth and all good things will blossom outward.

Now you might have a question though…. ‘so do I stop watching porn? Are you saying I should practice ‘no fap’?’

I’m personally not against masturbation. I think doing it excessively is a bit much but every so often to relieve yourself isn’t a bad thing. Not to porn though… I think it’s healthy when you get back to the roots of masturbation… when you would imagine yourself having sex and it being amazing. It’s basically a positive visualization exercise built up with sexual energy! Doing that in itself builds confidence and puts you in the picture rather than some pornstar.

And something more you can even do…. is build your confidence too through exploring and amplifying your sexuality. Kegel every single day so gain more control over your ejaculations. Do breathwork exercises (wil hof) and then afterwards, breathe in and out your sexual energy so that you become one with the sexual flow. We also have a pranayama exercise program in our android app that you can follow or even our youtube video on it. Breathing exercises help you connect to your inner flow of energy and at the same time the sexual flow of energy if you focus and breath it in and out as if it is the breath (which it is in essence). If you do this consistently, you can also begin to control your ejaculations with your breath (need to do kegelling for several weeks at least first) and amplify your sexual pleasure.

(That’s another issue that porn brings about and it’s that it trains your mind to finish quickly. Porn sites are also feeding grounds for entities so they leech there in a way that makes you rush to finish)

Being more in touch with your sexual energy, able to last considerably long and able to feel more pleasure will grant you a high level of sexual confidence. Another thing is that as I’ve said before, the energy you exude is felt strongly by a woman. And during intercourse, that is on a whole other level. Sex in itself is a fusion of energies; connecting and exchanging. So the more pleasure you feel, the more she will feel as well.

So in conclusion, let’s get rid of those limiting beliefs. You can listen to ‘Ego Dissolution’ then ‘Subconscious Limits’ on a daily basis to clear them out. But it REALLY helps if while you listen to these audios, you feel confident of your size and how you are as a whole. Feel it and believe it 100%. Ego dissolution promotes neuroplasticity so, you always have the opportunity to create new neural patterns while listening. Beyond those two audios, I would recommend Confidence and Self Love. (I’m sure there are others too)

As for kegeling, you can follow the link to learn how and also here is an audio we have that strengthens the pelvic floor muscles. I still recommend kegelling because that action has to be done consciously to control the ejaculatory flow. Here’s the Wil Hof Breathwork exercise in case you missed it.

I know many of your minds will still find ways to rationalize that ‘you are small’ and not big enough because you have believed this for years. It might be doing it right now and perhaps projecting thoughts like ‘THIS IS BS. If you’ve seen my tiny paperclip, you’d understand ’ or ‘ Society has changed. Women are more picky because of social media and they go for the biggest guys’ and so on. Your ego will sound and feel very convincing but ignore it. Follow through with this and I can promise that you will grow in a fulfilling way that penis growth could never fulfil :smiley:

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Dammit Sammy, you’re stealing my topics.
Got a whole PM waiting to be turned into a post about this…lol…
Sry… carry on! :smiley:

Edit… yours is longer(pun intended), and more eloquent that mine would have been, of course :unamused:

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Lol, it had to be done. You should still post your thoughts on it as someone might understand your take on it better than they understand mine.

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To the person(you know who you are) where I said

(ha, thought that would be a big wall of text. Short and to the point)

insert Sammy’s text there :stuck_out_tongue:

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Exactly bro lol haha. I just drew the empire state building with that text. You can condense all that into a convenience store that someone can walk right in and get what they need from it right away :smile:

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Here’s my shorter version (but it bends sideways and I heard women like that)

Ok, Having a larger penis will not help you

  • get a woman
  • keep a woman
  • improve your self confidence
  • improve your love making

What women "want” is a man who acts like he has a big penis ie. that confidence of being a stud/in control of his life.
The easiest and best way to do that is improve your self-confidence in a way that women find attractive. Period. Full Stop.

Women view penises the same way most guys view breasts. Sure we like to see lots of cleavage as it activates the primal part of our minds that equates frontal cleavage with “butt cleavage” -
but at the end of the day, guys (most guys) do not care if their sex partner has huge tits or smaller tits, right? (at least I don’t)
And in relationships, that’s almost never ever a factor.
I’ve never stayed with a woman cause she has huge boobs…

That said, men are obsessed with having a larger penis. Understood.
It will probably not solve ANY of the issues you think it will but some things you have to go thru the hard way (puns intended and not intended throughout) to learn better.

Having a larger penis actually inhibits many of the sexual acts that you would enjoy due to pain, discomfort, for the woman ie.

  • Anal Sex

  • Blow jobs (you often hear the complaint that their jaw hurts after a minute)
  • various positions you would enjoy become uncomfortable for a women

So if you think having a larger penis is going to make you “a better lover”. Don’t.
Becoming a better lover will make you a better lover and there’s plenty of info online on how to do that where having any sized penis will drive her wild.

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lmao haha at your first comment.

And good stuff man. That pretty much is a condensed version of what I said. Thanks bro

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I would like also to read your opinion, post
You are also equally as Sammy to me
I just see like that

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Sammy is definitely more Sammy than I am. :crazy_face:

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That being said, we just need very effective tool to remove or banish all possible types of our fears with we are already programmed, and then we naturally become super confidential and we don’t give a ****:smile: anymore

That’s the key which opens desired door…my opinion

And then sky is yours and you are ready to jump, just like that

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But I thought we were going to now delegate this task to the Aliens via the Intercession audio :smiley:

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Keep your alien peens out of this thread :rofl:

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Aliens might have multiple appendages (just guessing lol) :rofl: And we don’t have the right kinda clothes on earth to carry them around!!

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Like this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdy2Nx_VkWE

:) One of my fav new skits…

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A really good post. I wish this point of view came up more often in the porn discussion.

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:joy: :rofl: :joy:

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Well said. Learning to be happy with yourself and what you have to offer right now. Recognizing the illusions of the porn industry and the stories it creates in your mind. At the end of the day the size of the snake in your pants doesn’t matter as much as your confidence, charisma, communication, and foreplay skills + how you treat a woman.

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Yeah I think most of us understand that having a bigger penis doesn’t automatically make you attractive. However, some of us just want to have an extra 2 inches of girth because our penis are smaller than average. Think about it. If the average size in the US is 5.5 inches, that means that half of all American men have sizes smaller than that. Now if you are of Asian descent like I am, then you would be aware that asians have smaller penises on average. Let me highlight this, because this entire post feels like it is talking down to most men.

WANTING A BIGGER PENIS IS NOT WRONG AND NOT INDICATIVE OF INSECURITY

We don’t want a gigantic mammoth dick. Yes that would hurt women. Most of us want a schlong a bit bigger than average, especially if ours is smaller than average.

Then again, I’m not asking sapien to make a male enhancement audio. Quadible Integrity already made one without the claims of insecurity. In fact all of QI’s videos work based on love, so if you get a bigger schlong from that audio, you won’t feel an insecure.

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What Sammy is essentially saying is about your beliefs. If you think you have a large penis and you are confident about it, your subconscious will direct more blood flow there, which in turn makes it bigger. What you have to do is to stop the negative belief patterns and believe you have a large one, and confidently so. This will help change occur. Doing this along with listening to male enhancement audio will make it bigger. You can try listening to a subliminal about male enhancement which should work wonders on your subconscious mind. Belief=reality

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Yep. Where the focus goes, qi flows.

If your focus is on the lack “I have a small penis ” then… no flow :stuck_out_tongue:

Same with the workout audios. If you are hyper focused on seeing results and getting ripped it will take much longer.

Here is a great article from @SammyG about letting go and letting the audios do the work :slight_smile:

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